
Crossroads Discernment Process
A discernment process for churches uncertain about their future.
If you’ve ever walked into a large shopping mall, airport, or amusement park, you’ll have seen a map that identifies your current location: “You are here!” Knowing your starting point allows you to get your bearings so that you can chart a course to your destination.
So far in this Crossroads Discernment Process, you’ve focused on the past. Now you’ll focus on the present.
Chances are that the present is tense. There are questions in the air. Wonderings. That’s why this discernment process is under way. It was important for you to think about your past: who, what, where, and how you were. It was important to speak the truth about the good and the not so good of the past. Ultimately it was important to sense the grace of God in your past—and now you need to consider the truth and grace of God in the present. This involves the important work of self-examination as a church community.
This brings the community to a vital conversation about stewardship: How well are we making use of the resources God has provided? Resources include people, gifts, buildings, time, and energy. Is our current use compellingly fruitful, or can we imagine better ways to use these resources? When we talk about stewardship, we are talking about how God has blessed us in order to bless our surrounding communities and the world. So how has God blessed us, and how are we blessing others? What’s God doing in our presence and with our presence in the world? His mission and ours need to be in harmony.
The truth is, people aren’t always in sync with what the orientation map says. They may even disagree with the people standing beside them! Which way do we go from here? Ahead? Left? Right? Back? And on which level are we standing? How do we interpret the map together, so that it really does help all of us?
This checklist summarizes the suggested steps in this stage of your journey. You’ll find a more complete explanation below.
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Here are some activities you can engage in as you work through this Naming the Present stage.
(for use during a meal or dessert time)
While participants engage in one or more of the above activities, the facilitator may use questions like these to draw together important findings and themes:
*Heroic perspective—focusing on what needs to happen to save the church.
Victim perspective—focusing on being in such a sorry, sorry state. Woe is us.
Villain perspective—focusing on the idea that this church needs to close its doors—period.
When you feel that you’ve engaged the present well, you’re ready for the next stage of this process: Discerning the Future.
It’s important to celebrate the accomplishment of the progress you’re making. How will you celebrate the transition into each new stage? A few ideas:
If you find yourself stuck at any point, reach out to us—Pastor Church Resources. We’re here to help.
Once you’ve completed this Naming the Present stage, go to the Discerning the Future stage.